Trust
Posted April 23, 2009
on:We work hard to win trust from people, since once you have it, you possess the key to success. While it takes lots of effort obtaining trust, one second might flood it away just like how wave distroys sand castle. If you talk to people, the normal say would be “once you betray me, I’ll never trust you again”, but it’s different for my case. I guess I trust and grand people second chance easily. I also don’t know why that is the case but maybe I just find the easy way out. It’s hard to keep doubting and putting on harsh attitude. And I like the feeling of seeing people happy when they are given another chance. The whole world is smiling to you when you are forgiven by one person. Everytime I forgive, I think of all the good plans the person have in mind. For that one reason, I find it so easy to forgive and be understanding.
But maybe I have forgotten that the wound will be deepened if it is touched again.
Maybe plans are still plans no matter how good they are.
Maybe I’m too naive thinking that I can change a person by forgiving him.
Maybe I’ve been looking at the world through a pink prism.
1 | Truong Giai Van
April 24, 2009 at 3:07 am
Plans can turn into reality if you give them a chance…
By forgiving a person, you can change him with that chance given by you. To you it may seem like a happy occasion, but to the person, forgiveness and chance make a big difference and life will become much more meaningful to him.
Sometimes, in life, one should not be too harsh, because it will be bad for both parties.