Rush for?
Posted April 11, 2010
on:For some reasons, these days people change fb status far too often. “… is single” keeps poping up whenever I load the site. Are they joking? I don’t think people can joke over this matter though. So what?
It was just a few moments ago when one is hand in hand with her half, taking wonderful photos, posting romantic quotes and the next moment she declares happy being single. Are single and attached just two side of a coin and people can simply flip over in a matter of seconds? I find it cruel! So what was that so-called love or “love you so much” or “my life can’t be without you” or whatever? People make up the stories or their minds don’t even have any story line to follow.
Even external wound takes time to heel, let alone internal ones. And it takes cleanliness, fresh air for the wound to recover, it is not meant to be covered up. So why do people rush over sorrows? The “…is single” is normally followed by “happy being single”, “finds single life wonderful”, “energetic and passionate for new life”. What kind of bullshit is that? Didn’t they love with their hearts, their minds, their skin a short while ago? Or at least don’t their hands miss another hand? Don’t their lips miss another lips? Don’t their ears craze for sweet words?
So superficial! It doesn’t make one any good using this way to get over breakup. Sorrow has its own beauty by which you learn to be stronger/weaker and most importantly learn to be yourself. Since, after all, people never sit down for self-reflection during good time.
1 | Jonathan Tan
April 12, 2010 at 8:28 am
Haha… Like your post… Suddenly you start talking about the usual things again :-]
Humans change very fast, just like the weather.